Love is an ancient and mysterious topic, and how to obtain a satisfying love is a matter of personal opinion; Especially in the dating stage, how to use dating skills well and quickly capture a girl’s heart is something that men need to take seriously in love.
Now I would like to share with you several effective love tips that I have collected during my dating stage. There are many valuable insights that are worth having, and I hope they can help people in love to enter the marriage hall as soon as possible
Firstly, establishing a correct view of love is the key to successful love. Some people say that any love without the purpose of marriage is just playing rogue; Yes, love must be for the purpose of getting married, unless you are a non marriage advocate and the other party is also one; Love must have exclusivity, and we cannot step on two boats. That’s why love is selfish; The correct view of love is mutual and concerns two people in love. Firstly, it is important to remember that love is about two hearts attracting each other, not rejecting each other; Secondly, one should be good at discovering the strengths of the other person and being tolerant of their weaknesses; We also need to understand that there is no such thing as gold, no such thing as red, no such thing as a perfect person. We should communicate patiently, understand each other, seek common ground while reserving differences, and move towards the same goal; Of course, the most important thing is attitude. One should not complain and be impatient when small things happen, or break up when there is a conflict. Develop the habit of dealing with problems calmly and objectively, and grasp the approach of principle in big things and style in small things. Be good at solving problems between two people and eliminating them in the bud! Always remember that lovers are meant to comfort and hurt, not to argue and argue; When you are right, you can be wrong even if you have a bad attitude, and when you are wrong, you can become right even if you have a good attitude!
Secondly, one must bravely take the first step and overcome the psychological fear and timidity. You often hear things like this: even good cabbages are ruined by pigs, or complaints like this: a good man doesn’t have a good wife and relies on Han to guard the flower branches; Everything starts with taking the first step bravely. Cowardly people will ultimately achieve nothing, and those who are afraid of action will never reach the other side of success. Don’t always think about opportunities, look for opportunities, be unsuitable, and be afraid of rejection; Don’t even think that I don’t have a house, a car, or money. When the conditions improve in a few years, over time, no matter how excellent you are, you will miss out and your lover will also fall into someone else’s arms; From now on, take action immediately. Now is the most suitable opportunity. If you don’t try, how will you know that you are not suitable or excellent? She will not agree. Perhaps the person she is waiting for is you, or after several rejections, you can hold onto the beauty!
Thirdly, after gaining recognition from the other party, it is even more important to obtain recognition from their parents and family members. It is a well-known truth that a mother-in-law loves her son-in-law and a mother-in-law likes her daughter-in-law; After capturing the girl’s heart, the opinions of the other party’s family, especially the parents, cannot be ignored. There are often examples of young men and their future mother-in-law and father-in-law arguing for a long time due to different views and opinions, ultimately leading to a breakup with their lover; Marrying your child, whom you have worked hard to raise for decades, to you will make every parent reluctant to hesitate. Do you have compatible personalities and temperaments, will you be happy in the future, will you feel wronged? Is the other person’s work environment and family good? Everything will be involved. Poor parents, what should we do? You understand; Use your own sincerity to do it, use actions to persuade, treat yourself as a son, make your mother-in-law and father-in-law feel that their daughter is not missing one person after marriage, but has gained another person. Treat your father-in-law and mother-in-law as if they were your own biological parents, eliminate their worries, and your in laws will definitely recognize you!
Fourthly, being good at catering to one’s preferences and sticking to what is appropriate is the best. Seize every opportunity to express love and romance; Everyone has different personalities, temperaments, and hobbies, as well as different work, family, and social environments. This requires careful observation and analysis, using the most suitable and appropriate methods to move and influence the other person. You should understand the principle of “a drop of water wears a stone, a rope cuts a wood”; You should know that lovers admire the glory of Mercedes Benz and BMW, and also enjoy the fluttering scarves behind bicycles; Although abalone and lobster are delicious, a bowl of hot Noodles in soup when she was sick will also move her to tears;
If she likes to read books, you can give her books and take her to the bookstore; If she likes photography, you can accompany her to discover the beauty in life together; If she loves flowers, you can give her the entire garden; If she’s from Sichuan, you can accompany her to eat hotpot ..
When dealing with a lover, it’s not just about giving her what’s good and expensive, but also about adhering to the simple principle that suitability is the best.
Fifthly, companionship is the best way to express love. You must remember commuting, holidays, and anniversaries; A bouquet of roses, a birthday cake, or your sudden appearance at the entrance of her company when it rains, all of these are enough to move a lover deeply (gifts are not valuable, they are sincere, time doesn’t matter, they are because you have gone); Girls tend to prefer romance, love face, and enjoy having their lover by their side when they need it. This requires you, who are in love, to allocate and utilize your work and leisure time reasonably, so that your lover can feel your heart and warmth everywhere; Everything varies from person to person, and a hundred flowers bloom in all things. Love is a thoughtful thing. As long as you are good at discovering, taking it seriously, and taking positive actions, you will definitely be happier on the road of love!
Sixth, face reality and look to the future. Love is romantic and full of longing for marriage and love; Love requires both the confidence to continue romance forever and the ability to embrace new challenges; Love is the cornerstone of marriage, and it is important to have a solid foundation; People in love should not only accept each other’s strengths, but also tolerate each other’s weaknesses; To deal with the actual situation faced after marriage in love correctly, as long as we understand communication, exchange hearts, plan together, and take responsibility together! You will definitely be able to smoothly enter the hall of marriage!
Love opens the door to our pursuit of a beautiful love and marriage life. To smoothly transition from love to marriage, make love uninterrupted, and make marriage happier, we must always master love skills, use love tips well, and integrate them into our body and mind. We believe that our future marriage and love life will become more and more beautiful ..
