Want to take a shortcut to love? Wake up, don’t use ‘sex’ as the master key!
In this day and age, efficiency is emphasized in everything. I wish I could place an order with just one click and have it delivered the next day even in love.
Well, some people are thinking of taking shortcuts and treating “sex” as the universal key to love.
But can this thing really open the door to love?
I see hanging.
We need to understand that love is complex. It’s like boiling soup, which needs to be simmered slowly over low heat. What’s important is the fusion of flavors, not instant coffee that can be brewed in one go.
Do you think ‘sex’ is like a match, a single light can ignite the raging flames of love?
Actually, it’s more like fireworks, brilliant for a moment, fleeting.
Some young people are too impatient, always thinking about overtaking on the bend, wishing they met on the first day, confirmed their relationship on the second day, and… cough cough cough on the third day.
They think that ‘sex’ can quickly bring people closer together, but little do they know that it’s like sticking porcelain with glue. It looks like it’s stuck, but it actually shatters at the first touch.
Why do you say that?
What does true love rely on?
It is mutual understanding, common values, mutual trust, and soulful alignment.
These things can’t roll out of bed.
Do you think ‘sex’ can help you see a person clearly?
Don’t be silly, when hormones are high, everything is beautiful, but when the tide recedes, all that remains is the naked reality.
Moreover, using ‘sex’ as a shortcut can easily create illusions.
You think you’re like glue and paint, but in fact, it’s just the satisfaction of physiological needs and has nothing to do with love.
After the novelty wears off and the passion fades, you realize that you are not the same person at all.
There is even more danger, some people are addicted to this kind of “quick love”, thinking that the more “sex” there is, the deeper the relationship will be.
This is like drinking poison to quench thirst. It looks refreshing in the short term, but in the long run, it will only make oneself more poisoned.
Does’ sex ‘have any effect in love?
Of course not.
Good love is like a table full of Han people, where “sex” is one of the delicious dishes, but it’s not everything.
Without it, this table of dishes may lack some flavor; But with it alone, it cannot become a seat.
So, young people, don’t think about taking shortcuts anymore.
Love doesn’t have an elevator, you have to climb up step by step.
Don’t treat “sex” as a master key, it can’t open the door to love, and it might even lock itself out of the door.
To have true love, one must solidly understand the other person and manage the relationship.
Don’t always think about quick success, only slow work can produce fine work, and fine water can flow long.
Don’t forget, love is a marathon, not a 100 meter sprint.
Think clearly about what you really want, don’t be blinded by momentary passion.
After all, whether the shoes fit or not, only oneself knows.
