People often ask me what to do if I feel that the current pair sports are too formulaic and lack passion?
If you feel that life lacks some excitement, then you may need to change your ways.
Today, let’s talk about this issue with everyone. However, due to the nature of the topic, let’s stop here and focus on understanding.
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Maintain romance and passion
01. Create a romantic atmosphere
Some couples have a fixed pattern of exercise every time: after taking a shower and turning off the lights, they start sleeping.
In fact, the way humans obtain sexual stimulation is not only through skin contact, but also through visual, auditory, olfactory, and other sensory stimuli.
If you are not used to working under bright incandescent lamps, you can choose relatively dim lights or lamps that can emit soft light. If possible, you can also light an aromatherapy candle, which emits a faint fragrance in the flickering light and darkness, creating a unique charm. If you like, you can also play some relaxing and sexy music.
The environment must be cleaned up, after all, no one wants anything in a pigsty, right?
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02. Listen to your partner’s thoughts and needs
In daily interactions, two people should communicate honestly, listen to each other’s thoughts, and understand each other’s preferences. After all, this is mutual pleasure, not one side satisfying the other.
Only by knowing what the other person likes and wants, and satisfying them appropriately during exercise, can the process be more enjoyable.
03. There should be passion in actions
Same room, not just those few minutes of wheezing. Don’t forget foreplay, it’s the process that best showcases passion.
For example, there are many ways to kiss, some like a dragonfly skimming the water, while others are full of passion. Simultaneously or alternatively during the kissing process. In addition to kissing, there are hugs, love, and touch. The more fully you physically touch each other, the more intimate and stimulating the entire process becomes.
Remember, having passion in actions does not necessarily mean being rude or brute force, as such scenes only appear in movies. If it hurts, it’s not passion, but rather a disappointment.
Slightly ‘abnormal’
The ‘abnormality’ referred to here is not the kind of physical and psychological abnormality, but the ability to do things that are not usually dared to be done. Of course, all of this is voluntary.
01. Try sexy underwear
Both men and women can try it, if they always wear those ordinary underwear, there is no sense of mystery. Changing the style may bring unexpected surprises.
I can’t provide specific guidance, but I understand everything. You can search for it yourself and learn more.
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02. Buy some adult products
You can try some small toys when two people are interested, and take turns trying your favorite little things on each other.
You can also try role-playing by planning a scenario and character in advance, and even designing the content of your speech (instead of just changing clothes).
Some methods may not be acceptable or suitable for everyone. But if you can accept it, some toys and forms will still bring you a sense of mystery and freshness.
03. Teasing each other with food
For example, taking turns feeding fruit to the other person, not just using your hands, you can use your mouth, and you can also put some food on the other person’s body (I won’t explain how to do it specifically).
If you can drink alcohol, it’s also okay to have a few drinks. Being slightly drunk can give you a different feeling, but don’t get drunk, as it’s boring.
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04. Watching a movie together at home
You can choose a movie that both of you like, snuggle up on the sofa or carpet, and watch it together.
Of course, if you want to watch more exciting movies together, it’s also possible. These movies have some new tricks for you to choose from, so you don’t have to go to great lengths to figure out some actions. It should be noted that watching such movies is always acceptable to both parties. If one party doesn’t like it, don’t do it, otherwise you may feel uncomfortable.
Try to change, let nature take its course
01. Move to another place
The place where two people exercise together is usually in bed, but if they always do the same thing at the same time and place, it may become less interesting.
So, you can switch to a different location for exercise, such as a sofa, on the ground, etc. Any space in your home can be used as a place for exercise, which will give you a different sense of excitement. If economically feasible, you can also occasionally visit nearby hotels.
02. Travel to other places
You can choose a weekend to go on a spontaneous trip, to a strange environment, a more relaxed mood, which will further heat up your relationship.
Choose better accommodation, as a dirty, messy, and poor environment may backfire.
03. Do not plan to have sexual intercourse
The act of having sexual intercourse is like burning dry firewood with a spark, only then can there be a pleasant feeling. If you always plan which day and time to have sex, it’s not very interesting. No one likes to exercise like completing a task, right?
By the way, some couples who are preparing for pregnancy, in order to improve their chances of success, have to mark the “ovulation period” every time they have sex. The woman tests her ovulation every day, and when it looks like she is about to ovulate, she quickly asks the man to have sex. Then some boys become ‘ovulatory impotence’ because of this’ task-based sexual intercourse ‘.
04. Change positions
In addition to being a missionary, there are actually many other postures, each with a different experience. Trying different poses can also bring different passions.
But it should be noted that any posture is acceptable to both parties, and it is important to maintain a safe posture as much as possible.
