Many brothers have asked me how to make a woman fall in love with herself on a date. Ultimately, the premise is that the other party is interested in you, and of course, having the right dating skills is essential. This is based on your social intuition, the more social experience you have, the clearer you will be about this secret. In this process, the sensitivity, maturity, and emotional availability that men can present have become a discipline that has been passed down for thousands of years among a few people. Then I clicked directly and revealed this secret, so that everyone could understand, from the shadow of men on the Diaoyu Islands, to becoming a good man and a new generation of female masters.
1: Choose a comfortable place
Since you took the initiative to ask the girl, you should choose a place for the date. All itineraries should be arranged by you, finding some comfortable areas where the other party can let go of their defenses against you. So you can get closer.
2: Stop chatting at the key point
Most boys, when dating girls, easily fall into a situation where they are driven by tension and enter an endless cycle of nervousness, more words, and even losing control. During the conversation, the topic is discussed very deeply. Not only can we talk about this topic without changing it, but we can also easily lose control and play with ourselves. Especially if you lack experience and don’t know how to plan. You must understand that if you want a girl to give you feelings, you must gain further recognition from her during the dating process so that your attraction will be effective. If a girl completely distrusts you, no matter how attractive you are, it’s just a conversation, right!
3: The key to chatting is to talk to each other
When chatting, try not to talk about your past. No girl will be interested in your past from the beginning. The commonalities of your interest in her, or your original interest. Many boys will talk about their past at the beginning, saying how hard they worked and how excellent they were, but are these really what girls are interested in? Focus on the other person and chat if she is interested. If you don’t know where the other person’s interests lie, you can talk about food, travel, movies, and so on. Girls generally enjoy these topics.
4: Being in a leadership position
In nature, male animals tend to dominate and take leadership positions. As a man, don’t see it as a burden, but as a privilege. This will bring you more fun. So, do things the way you like, and you will make decisions. If she doesn’t want to refuse, then you can start discussing some things from now on.
5: Create laughter
Love and smiles always accompany it. In the traditional sense, a sense of humor always occupies a very important position among the factors that can create love between men and women. The shared feeling of laughter can greatly reduce the distance between men and women, forming an intimate relationship. Learn and exercise step by step, and constantly gain experience. Make your emotional life more interesting.
6: Female preferences
When you meet a girl for the first time and chat while walking, you can find topics to talk about based on her preferences. For example, when it’s time for dinner on your date, you might say to her, “What flavors of food do you usually like to eat? By the way, remember the last time we talked, you said you really like spicy food, right?” After the girl replies, you can say, “I know a hot pot restaurant that’s super spicy. Let’s go try it.
We need to ask girls about their preferences from time to time when we go on a date, then use their replies to spread the conversation and lead them on a date. Similarly, watching movies or going to amusement parks can be done in this way, which not only shows your concern for girls, but also lets her see that you are a determined boy.
7: Family relationships
When eating and shopping, you can ask the girl’s family whether she has brothers and sisters. If the girl is willing to talk about this topic with you, you should also talk about her own family, and finally extend to her parents’ work and family relations. The biggest advantage of discussing family is that it can quickly bring girls closer together. People are not willing to talk about family with someone they are not very familiar with. What you need to do is to use this topic to reduce the sense of unfamiliarity between you and make her feel that you are a close person.
8: Tourism
Whether chatting online or on a date, travel is always a topic worth discussing. Proactively tell the girl about the tourist attractions she has visited in the past six months or a year, and share some interesting stories and anecdotes from her travels. If girls also enjoy traveling, then there will be a constant stream of topics between you, allowing them to actively share with you and express strong interest and identification with you. If a girl doesn’t have much time to travel, you can say to her, ‘There’s a place I’ve always wanted to go to, and I plan to visit it soon. I’ll take you there when I have time.’ Then you can make a vague invitation on site based on the topic.
9: Work
When dating girls, the topic of work is inevitably brought up, but many boys usually ask questions about what they are doing at work, their working hours, and a series of questions similar to checking their household registration. In fact, this kind of chat can sometimes make girls feel impatient because dating you is supposed to be a relaxed and enjoyable process. We need to make her forget about those tedious and stressful things in this process.
Of course, we need to talk about this topic, but we should pay attention to the way we chat. You can simply ask a girl what kind of job she does, then give her some simple opinions on her job, and then guide the topic to your own job and career. Tell the girl why you do this job and your future plans, and elevate the topic of work to your career planning and dreams. In this way, you can also show the girl that you are a boy with dreams.
10: Hobbies and Interests
You can ask girls what they like to do and where they like to go to play when they are not working. Share your leisure life and hobbies with the girl, so that she understands that you are a rich life, not just a boy who only stays at home and plays games. After understanding her lifestyle, hobbies, and habits, it will also be convenient for you to invite her again.
11: Emotional experience
This topic cannot be discussed at the beginning. We need to constantly assess the chat status when dating a girl. If the girl is willing to share the topic with you at that time, we should try to touch on it superficially.
Talking about emotional experiences can easily touch a girl’s heart. At the beginning, you can tell her interesting stories from your school days, actively tell her embarrassing things that happened with the girl you like at that time, and guide her to share her emotional experiences. Once the girl is willing to open up this topic to you, your emotions can easily get closer. On the contrary, once you touch her recklessly, the girl will instinctively resist and resist.
If a girl has any resistance to this topic, no matter how hot your chat was before, stop discussing immediately and change the topic.
So many brothers also sent private messages to Xiao Yuan hoping that I could recommend some good dating places to them.
After all, eating, shopping, and watching movies are really boring.
I can’t figure out a girl’s taste when it comes to eating, shopping is too tiring, watching movies, and we can’t communicate. I’m really worried about my brothers. So I searched through various small books and read various small pieces.
I have painstakingly compiled several dating sites that can enhance relationships for everyone.
1? A place to showcase your explosive boyfriend’s strength
Best location: VR experience center, escape room experience center, or amusement park.
These high-energy places on site can quickly interact with girls and bring them closer together.
The level of energy is the watershed for whether your relationship with a girl can quickly warm up during a date.
Come on, close your eyes and imagine with me.
In the dim light, you and she are in a tense and exciting place, you look at her, she looks at you.
She said to you, ‘Oh, he’s so scared~’
You said, ‘Don’t worry, I’m here!’
Then, relying on your impressive intelligence and explosive boyfriend strength, you defeated the evil dragon and successfully escaped with your little one, starting a happy life.
Hmm? Why does it feel strange.
In short, these places will provide you with more interaction with girls.
Because there are many aspects that require your joint cooperation to complete.
When frightened, hold her hand tightly and give her strength; Touch her head when she’s nervous and comfort her.
Then the girl will instantly feel that your shoulders are two meters wide, and the sense of security is so strong that it is dazzling.
Here, I want to talk to my brothers about the suspension bridge effect. An environment that makes people nervous and their hearts race faster can greatly affect how girls feel about you.
what? You said you were going to use a kitchen knife to force someone to date you? Hello, police uncle, there is a bad person here who wants to do something bad.
Our physiological reactions often affect our psychological responses and interpretations of the world.
And then further affect our feelings and actions, what does the suspension bridge effect really mean?
Suspension Bridge Effect: When a person crosses a suspension bridge with anxiety, their heart rate will involuntarily increase. And at this moment, she happened to be with someone of the opposite sex, and she would misunderstand the accelerated heartbeat caused by this situation as the other person making her heart beat, thus developing feelings of love.
The production of good feelings is caused by dopamine in the brain. Removing scary stimuli or places that excite people will increase the secretion of this substance in the brain, thus creating the illusion of love.
Make the other person mistakenly believe that their physiological reaction is caused by being with you.
So places that are terrifying, stimulating, or exciting are the best places to cultivate love.
2? A place to showcase your full talents
Best Location: Mini KTV
It’s the kind of small KTV that is often seen in shopping malls and supermarkets, usually only able to accommodate two people.
Because the space in mini KTV is limited, the distance between you and the girls unconsciously narrows due to environmental constraints.
At the same time, you also have the opportunity to make more eye contact and physical contact with girls.
Music is the best tool that can melt people’s rationality. When the atmosphere comes, are you still afraid that she won’t fall in love with you?
The premise is that you should try to prepare a few songs that you can listen to, and not immediately want to leave as soon as you start speaking.
Because after all, not everyone looks and sings like me, so perfect that there are no flaws, haha ..
Remember not to show off! Express your charm and talents appropriately. Remember, this is not your concert.
Why choose here? It’s because everything here is based on your interaction with her.
Don’t give me a quote as soon as you come up: When I’m alone, I’ll drink and get drunk, and I’ll make a beautiful woman pair up, with only one eye, hoping that one day we can return together.
Appropriate love songs are the safest choice, and it would be even better if there were one or two lines in the lyrics that could suggest something to her.
You sing passionately, she listens passionately, and then you look at her with affection. Ah, this scene is so beautiful that I dare not watch.
Are all you thinking of bitter love songs? It’s okay, I’ll give you a few recommendations:
Singing this song for you doesn’t have much style, it just represents my desire to bring you happiness
Dear, falling in love with you, the memory of perfume floating in your love diary
Small dimples, long eyelashes, charming and beyond redemption
If your singing is really unpleasant, then don’t go to these places because it will only expose your shortcomings. (Hahaha)
3? Let you understand her better
Best Location: Supermarket or Home Furnishing Store
Dating doesn’t necessarily have to go to very romantic places, places full of life atmosphere like this are also good choices.
You can test whether the values, consumption habits, lifestyle preferences, and habits of girls are consistent with yours.
These down-to-earth places can easily instill expectations in girls and make you feel that both of you are influencing each other’s lives.
For example, if you see an accessory, you can ask her if she likes it or not.
If she likes it, you can buy it and hang it up at home, implying that you are willing to make your life the way she likes it.
If you could show that although my body is still shopping with you, my mind has already started to think about where to put our baby bed, and she has accepted your state.
In addition, you can also understand various preferences of girls. The more you know, the more targeted you will be. Only in the process of later dating can you prescribe the right medicine and successfully seduce (knock down) girls!
To have a good dating experience with girls, you need to try new dating projects instead of the old routine of eating, shopping, and watching movies.
Girls are animals that pursue novelty.
She wants to agree to your date in the hope of getting closer to each other, so make sure to choose carefully.
After all, this will demonstrate your value for girls and also showcase your own charm.
That’s all for today’s tips. I hope it can be helpful for brothers who are confused on the path of love. If you want to learn more about love, follow Xiao Yuan and I will regularly share more love skills
